Q: My wife and I have a good relationship, but it becomes less harmonious after a while. No matter how hard I try during foreplay, she always says she feels itchy or uncomfortable. I have tried to communicate with her, but it still doesn't solve the problem. What is going on?
Deng Chunhua, deputy chief physician of the Urology Department of the First Affiliated Hospital of Sun Yat-sen University: If we compare the life of a couple to a "doubles match", then the training before the match requires the cooperation of both husband and wife. The male should first pay attention to the feelings of the woman.
When a woman complains that her partner caresses her certain parts and makes her feel "uncomfortable" or "itchy", it is likely a defensive reaction, reflecting that she has inner conflicts and is not fully focused. Men should change their sexual actions according to women's needs and let them relax completely.
Secondly, professional treatments, such as sexual behavior guidance, application of lubricants, psychological desensitization, etc., can help increase women's satisfaction with sexual behavior and build confidence.
In clinical practice, sexual arousal disorders caused by endocrine hypofunction are also common, and medication is required for treatment.
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